Sami dostrzegamy zmiany, jakie zachodzą w preferencjach życia między pokoleniem chociażby naszym, a naszych rodziców. To samo dzieje się na całym świecie i tak samo jest w Japonii. Każdy młody człowiek myśli o karierze i osiągnięciu życiowego sukcesu. Może tylko metody, jakimi do tego dochodzi różnią się od tych, których używamy my. Ale czy znów tak bardzo?
Młody Japończyk, tak jak młody Polak, since the early years of schooling is driven by "rat race". From the beginning, is taught how to fight for themselves. The older generation looks at what is happening with some disbelief and shakes his head in amazement. How so you can live? Is the greatest value is to be money? Do you struggle to acquire wealth is to overshadow everything else? What awaits all those young people for 20 years? Whether they are human wrecks at the age of 40 years fit only for retirement, or to psychiatric treatment? Or will cope in life?
probably the same questions asked the parents, and before their parents. But let's not rush or a blind alley? Looking at today's young people see the first one. HUGE FATIGUE. Students not only learn in school, but also on additional extra-curricular activities because they must constantly deepen and improve their knowledge. Entertainment abreaction is actually a time of stress, rather than the period allowed for a good time. The days of common peers playing football in the backyard after school. Everyone rushes to the next class, which invented his parents. A kind of nightmare.
in Japan is the same if not worse. Just as in our country, young people using the media. They are accustomed to continuing the work from an early age. In the age of five to fall into the system and are in it to old age. There is only one small difference. They are accustomed to for generations, and we only been less than 20 years. It may be that today's children will not give you advice, do not tolerate poor health, quickly get old, and no reform did not help. It appears that 30 to 40-year-old retirees, will have only burnt wrecks, nieumiejącymi live without working, while niemogącymi longer work.
older generation looks at it all and is silent. He is afraid to speak up, because each board is rejected in the name of other goals in life. Young people do not want to listen to the older and altogether this is normal, but it is absurd to ridicule advice of parents, as those who do not know how it is now dead, and what are now its requirements. Here probably lies mainly with the difference between a young Polish and Japanese. In the Country of Cherry Blossoms surrounded by older people are particularly respectful, just for his life knowledge with us so ridiculed. After all, is not to say that all so-called good advice must be used. But you should listen to them with respect.
Many young Poles are missing elementary "kindersztuby and political thinking. From the top sentence negate the elderly and assume that only they are right and they know what they want. Sometimes, like the Japanese, you might want to listen to seniors, and to accept and benefit from the wisdom of life preached by them.
old man is quiet, it does not go with noise and impetuosity ahead. Its heyday has been behind. Even expected that someone younger would like to use his experience. It is always ready to share his knowledge, so Let us appreciate it. Do not say that his wisdom has gone along with it. Sometimes only after it is, so let us learn to appreciate this.
Have respect for each other after so many years spent together. When you hear from us that his son drove their parents, or parents of the children if not worse, it does not want to trust that somewhere are people who simply do not have these problems.
course nowhere does it wonderfully. Probably in Japan are "black sheep", but I mean the way in which contact the young and old. Life "on a pile of" also has its own laws and requirements. They must respect each other, because otherwise they would probably be zagryźli. What matters is that they could adapt to the conditions in which they must live. However, it seems to us that young people want everyone to have adapted to them. Maybe it is time to think about is what happens with the relationships between them and their children. It may be even more interesting. Is not it?
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